As I progress on this journey some insights really persist.
The why of embarking this journey may have started with having time freedom and financial freedom.
They no longer are.
I have experienced what many others have or are.
I feel I was duped into thinking the following:
It is easy to build a business all you need is an Email list.
It is easy to build a business all you need is to do daily Facebook lives.
It is easy to build a Business all you need to do is have a daily task, monthly goals and an accountability system.
It is easy to build a Business all you need to do is have an opt in like an ebook or video series on your website.
The truth is it is not easy to build an Online Business.
You cannot do just one thing, you need to do many things.
You need time, energy and space.
Building a Business takes time and there is no such thing as being an overnight success.
There is no template or system out there that works. Because what works for you may not work for me.
And systems need to be adapted and tweaked.
It is getting harder and harder as the Online space is becoming crowded and noisier and the public are becoming cynical.
However that is no reason to give up.
To be successful, you need to forget about the cynics or convert the cynics and you can only do that with honesty and integrity.
The Business world still has some people like that and those that do well are those that value those two ways of being.
The whole raison d’etre of my becoming an Entrepreneur is to impact as many individuals as I can with my gifts and talents and with my honesty and integrity.
The joy I get when Clients thank me for giving them an insight or shifting some negative energy is priceless.
However I see a development in the Personal Development Industry that many forget about growing and wanting to create an impact nd start focusing on building 6 figure empires instead.
I came across this Industry by accident in November 2017.
I was very naive and although I am still a newbie, I have seen so many shifts and emerging trends as the market place evolves.
Some of the shifts I do not like.
Some I do.
One of the shift is that trust and integrity is key and hard selling is being replaced by more practices borrowed from the dating world.
To attract Clients rather than chase after Clients.
To build relationships rather than see them as leads.
To focus on quality rather than quantity.
All these things is what my Business is about.
That is why I only work with three Clients in a given year.
I have two paid clients now and want to attract a third.
I work deeply and intensively with a Client and give them 100 percent.
I work with them one on one and using my three decades of working therapeutically with Clients, I help them improve their relationships with themselves and that helps them improve their relationships with other people, money, God, their body and health, time etc.
I also am grounded in not seeing my relationships with my Clients as me giving my time for their money.
What I have always known is that I offer a transformation. My clients lives transform dramatically and very quickly.
I have shifted in my mindset from an Employee who offers their skills for payment to an Entrepreneur who offers a transformation and that is usually priceless.
Clients come to me burnt out by their Profession or Business and finding and after three months usually they are nightmare free or resentment free or anxiety free.
I heal
I counsel
I advise
I release
I guide
I support
I coach
Integrity is something you have to really seek to find.
It is felt in your gut usually.
I have no fancy website but I do offer fabulous results.
I write from the heart.
I coach from the heart.
I wanted to share this with you today, you who have been accompanying me on this journey.
I hope you join me tomorrow too.
Till then.
If anything in this blog has really resonated with you and you would like to discuss the subject further with Taniya privately then use this link.
Taniya Hussain qualified as a Social Worker in 1991 from Coventry University in England, UK. She has been working on the front lines in London UK, consistently holding space for individuals and families in chaos and crisis for three decades especially, children and young people on the margins of society. Taniya studied Psycho-dynamic counselling from 1991 to 1993 at Goldsmiths College in London. Taniya met Sheikha Halima Krausen in 1992 and has been studying Islam with her ever since especially Mystical Islam, Tassawuf (Sufism) and walks on the Chisti path. Taniya fuses Jungian Pyschology and Islamic Psychology and this fusion can best be understood if you read her book Dancing with Darkness which is available on Amazon. It became a Best Seller on Amazon in the UK, U.S and France in April 2025. The book tells the story of Tamara Alvi, a fictional charachter and is a psychological thriller and a story of healing. Taniya started her coaching and consulting business in January 2018 and she works mainly with High Achievers and High Performers and High Performing Leaders, offering reflective spaces since 2018 and what she refers to as THE REFLECTIVE SPACE. Taniya since starting her busines discovered that she is a powerful healer and was shocked that clients were relieved from pain even though they have been diagnosed with a chronic illness. Taniya is delighted to have discovered Paceology, which is the detailed study of PACE. She is the first paceologist. She noticed when working with high performers when you slow down in one area of your life, this causes you to speed up in another area and vice cersa thus leading to increased levels of productivity, creativity, clarity and energy. She brands herself as the Muslim Alchemist because she really is The Muslim Alchemist as she guides you to transfom the base, in other words the shit that you have experienced into GOLD whether that is love of yourself or God or another human being or a healthier body or a life where you feel at peace and calm and fulfilled or more energy or more money. You definintely will feel lighter, more freer and more clearer even if you book one consultation with her or several sessions.
Taniya has a very holistic approach when working with individuals and works with you on multiple layers, the emotional, the psychological, the social, the physical, the mental and the spriritual. She uses stories from the Quran and the Bible when working with clients on a one to one basis or in group workshops as well as breathwork, body scanning, cognitive behavioural therapy, neuro linguistic programming, motivational interviewing. systems theory, neuro science. She is trained in multiple modalities as well as using her own Paceology and insists on offering her clients a trauma informed and trauma responsive service.
She is constantly integrating her knowledge of the Quran and Bible with her vast social work experience and training. Taniya's extensive ability of applying psycho-dynamic theory to organisational settings, teams and groups as well as to individuals results in those who attend her sessions or workshops as feeling lighter and more energised. Taniya uses skillfully her understanding of the Shadow, that Jung constantly talked about and her Mystical Training. She also has integrated her passion for inter-faith dialogue and the archetypes that Jung often refers to, come alive in her one to one sessions and her group workshops thus resulting in individuals feeling more freer and fulfilled after they stop working with her. Taniya just does not provide clarity she WAKES you up to. Taniya has a great skill in being able to see the blind spots in others and does this in a non judgemental way and a way that you feel safe. She also "untangles energetic knots" (a term she uses for Shadow) in your body to promote healing from mental and physical disease. Clients usually are healed in a short amount of time because she pinpoints the memory, the event, the thought that first caused the disease. She also provides one to one sessios or training workshops to social work teams, school, secure and prison estate on youth justice, knife crime prevention as well asidentification and prevention of early onset of burnout.
Taniya has three sons, who were born in 1996, 2001 and 200 and lives in Surrey, England and when she is not coaching or writing songs, blogs and poems, she loves to spend time, travelling, walking, listening to music, watching films or playing cricket.
She speaks fluent English and Urdu and basic German and French and is learning Arabic and Hebrew.
I’m seeing a trend in the online space and offline space in social work, therapy circles amongst coaches etc. And I am VERY observant of trends of reading between the lines, spotting patterns in the transformation of #consciousness Having studied Jungian Psychology...
Heroes quote themselves according to Manny Wolfe the author of The Tao of The Unbreakable Man.So here is me quoting myself "Trauma is the Training Ground for Leadership"This is something I have said to myself, to my clients, to my friends and seen in my 50 plus years...
Eight ago exactly I was debating on Boxing Day 2018 whether to pay a $500 deposit which was going to be non refundable to an online coach. I hardly had any savings and I was going to sign up to a 12 month contract with this coach that called herself a Success coach....
0 Comments