July 2, 2019

Privilege and Wealth!

This is me below:

This photo was taken in February 2016. I like this photo, it was taken by a very dear friend who is like a sister to me.

It was taken when I was just about to deliver a lecture to Rabbis, Imams, Spiritual Leaders, Pastors, Rabbi students, Muslim Community Workers etc at an Interfaith Conference in Germany.

I look really pensive.

I was.

I had put my heart and soul into my lecture which is entitled God’s voice in a Secular Society. That was the theme of the Conference.

This lecture you can read here too here on this WordPress blog as I made it into a blog when I started these blogs. It is long, so I recommend you stay with this particular blog first as this is a shorter read. You can read that one later.

Why am I sharing this photo with you?

I still use it now.

Yes that is one reason why I am sharing it with you.

I am also sharing it with you to show you as an Entrepreneur it is so easy to fall into the trap of wanting everything to look perfect, flawless.

This is an old photo not taken by a Professional but by a friend.

Yet it works for me as it captures me in my authenticity.

And that is what people want to connect with, someone they can relate to.

Not all people who want to be entrepreneurs want six or seven figure businesses.

Some just want peace and joy and a little bit more financial security.

Some people just want to relate to someone who is a few steps ahead of them. They just want a bit of guidance and they feel they can get to their goal by themselves after that.

I see so many Entrepreneurs lose sight of that.

They stop being themselves and are trying to be someone else, usually someone they admire.

But real Entrepreneurship comes when you are giving to the world what comes from yourself in your entirety.

Then magic and miracles abound.

Wealth is created.

I am not just taking about financial wealth.

I am talking spiritual and physical and emotional wealth.

This photo symbolises the start of a journey, which I didn’t even know I was starting.

I entered the world of being a thought leader, guide and healer.

Before this I just saw myself as a mere Practitioner.

I unconsciously started my journey of transitioning from being an Employee to emerge as an Entrepreneur.

Back in 2016, I remember that I felt very privileged to be delivering that lecture. The Interfaith Conference has been happening for over 30 years, I believe.

I recall when I first attended the Interfaith Conference in 2003, how I admired the quiet but strong presence of the Muslim Woman who delivered it. She spoke in German and while I had the English Translation of her lecture in front of me, her words did not reach my heart.

Her pain reached my heart.

I recall that I was touched by her angst and frustration and deep sorrow that she felt when no one around her understood her.

I suddenly felt less alone.

It made me stronger, knowing I was not the only one who feels like this doing the work I do.

And although I knew after listening to her, I would probably never meet her again, she had made an impact and that was enough.

Her courage to speak, I admired her quiet courage to just be who she is.

When I spoke in 2016 just after this photo was taken, I spoke as myself. I was not trying to be anyone else.

There was no pretension.

There was anger at certain injustices and there was a serenity that I surprised myself to find.

In this journey that you may also be travelling like me, it is so important that you be yourself and constantly ask why you are wanting to offer the world your product or service?

I know my who I want to impact individuals who feel alone, and give, give, give but are tired. I want to be there for them whoever they are and remind them why they started giving in the first place, inspire them on.

I like looking at this picture too as it reminds me how important it is to be grateful to those that invite you to speak on stages and shows and platforms.

I also find it a true privilege each time as I usually admire the host or the organisers or the fellow speakers.

There is usually so much wealth of knowledge and experience in the room or online Summit, it humbles me.

I have fond memories of that Conference.

I wanted to share what I am learning with you on this journey.

This is because the ego can seduce you to feeling entitled to being on a certain stage.

You can start chasing Clients, Money and Success.

Entrepreneurship is not about chasing.

It is about attracting and remember success is not an outer experience.

The outer story is really not the real one.

It starts with the inner transformations.

Success I am discovering more and more is the inner peace and joy.

Action is followed by Reflection.

You see money is just energy.

Wealth is inside of you.

The answers to how you can make your business grow is inside of you.

If anyone tells you different, do not trust them.

Because what works for me, may not work for you!

Above is a recent photo of myself enjoying some Islamic Heritage stored at the Victoria and Albert museum.

I wanted you to have a before and after picture to show you that I like spending days away from my Business with friends.

I hope it helps you take some time out from your business as you need some respite in this journey.

This photo was also taken by a dear friend, another friend who I have known for over 25 years.

Enjoy your Tuesday!

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Taniya Hussain qualified as a Social Worker in 1991 from Coventry University in England, UK. She has been working on the front lines in London UK, consistently holding space for individuals and families in chaos and crisis for three decades especially, children and young people on the margins of society. Taniya studied Psycho-dynamic counselling from 1991 to 1993 at Goldsmiths College in London. Taniya met Sheikha Halima Krausen in 1992 and has been studying Islam with her ever since especially Mystical Islam, Tassawuf (Sufism) and walks on the Chisti path. Taniya fuses Jungian Pyschology and Islamic Psychology and this fusion can best be understood if you read her book Dancing with Darkness which is available on Amazon. It became a Best Seller on Amazon in the UK, U.S and France in April 2025. The book tells the story of Tamara Alvi, a fictional charachter and is a psychological thriller and a story of healing. Taniya started her coaching and consulting business in January 2018 and she works mainly with High Achievers and High Performers and High Performing Leaders, offering reflective spaces since 2018 and what she refers to as THE REFLECTIVE SPACE. Taniya since starting her busines discovered that she is a powerful healer and was shocked that clients were relieved from pain even though they have been diagnosed with a chronic illness. Taniya is delighted to have discovered Paceology, which is the detailed study of PACE. She is the first paceologist. She noticed when working with high performers when you slow down in one area of your life, this causes you to speed up in another area and vice cersa thus leading to increased levels of productivity, creativity, clarity and energy. She brands herself as the Muslim Alchemist because she really is The Muslim Alchemist as she guides you to transfom the base, in other words the shit that you have experienced into GOLD whether that is love of yourself or God or another human being or a healthier body or a life where you feel at peace and calm and fulfilled or more energy or more money. You definintely will feel lighter, more freer and more clearer even if you book one consultation with her or several sessions. Taniya has a very holistic approach when working with individuals and works with you on multiple layers, the emotional, the psychological, the social, the physical, the mental and the spriritual. She uses stories from the Quran and the Bible when working with clients on a one to one basis or in group workshops as well as breathwork, body scanning, cognitive behavioural therapy, neuro linguistic programming, motivational interviewing. systems theory, neuro science. She is trained in multiple modalities as well as using her own Paceology and insists on offering her clients a trauma informed and trauma responsive service. She is constantly integrating her knowledge of the Quran and Bible with her vast social work experience and training. Taniya's extensive ability of applying psycho-dynamic theory to organisational settings, teams and groups as well as to individuals results in those who attend her sessions or workshops as feeling lighter and more energised. Taniya uses skillfully her understanding of the Shadow, that Jung constantly talked about and her Mystical Training. She also has integrated her passion for inter-faith dialogue and the archetypes that Jung often refers to, come alive in her one to one sessions and her group workshops thus resulting in individuals feeling more freer and fulfilled after they stop working with her. Taniya just does not provide clarity she WAKES you up to. Taniya has a great skill in being able to see the blind spots in others and does this in a non judgemental way and a way that you feel safe. She also "untangles energetic knots" (a term she uses for Shadow) in your body to promote healing from mental and physical disease. Clients usually are healed in a short amount of time because she pinpoints the memory, the event, the thought that first caused the disease. She also provides one to one sessios or training workshops to social work teams, school, secure and prison estate on youth justice, knife crime prevention as well asidentification and prevention of early onset of burnout. Taniya has three sons, who were born in 1996, 2001 and 200 and lives in Surrey, England and when she is not coaching or writing songs, blogs and poems, she loves to spend time, travelling, walking, listening to music, watching films or playing cricket. She speaks fluent English and Urdu and basic German and French and is learning Arabic and Hebrew.

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